Are you searching for your true love? Do you feel that you’ll never find it? Are you afraid you might not recognize it if it fell into your lap? Everybody hopes they will be favored with true, unabashed love from a worthy companion. Some are more fortunate in their search than others, but you can improve your odds for finding true love by following a few simple rules.
You’ve heard the old adage that love will find you, not the other way around. This is only partially true. Love will find you if you make yourself available. If you hide in your home wearing pajamas and watching cable tv, it will have a difficult time locating you. You will have a much better chance of meeting your perfect mate if you hang out in places where successful singles congregate.
If you’re too busy, or too exhausted at the end of the day, to get spiffed up and go bar-hopping, think about joining an online dating service. These sites aren’t just for losers. Lots of worthy singles are resorting to the Internet to match them up according to their interests and lifestyle. Some of these sites use sophisticated personality tests to pair you with compatible partners, while others let you choose potential soul mates for yourself. If you want to sort through your dating prospects rather than letting a computer program do it for you, you need to keep the following things in mind.
Determine what you need and want from a man. Don’t rely on friends, family, or the media to tell you what’s important. Look deep inside yourself for the answer to this question. What will make you truly happy?
Establish standards and stick by them. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t keep an open mind, merely that you shouldn’t shortchange yourself. For instance, if you’ve dating several unemployed men in a row, you might make a commitment to only date guys with stable jobs. If you had a bad experience dating a man who was continually gone on business, you might decide to date only men who stick close to home.
Don’t let yourself become disillusioned by the dating scene. Although it’s easy to get discouraged, fight the urge to give up the search for your true love. Try to take something positive away from every encounter, even if it’s only the knowledge that you won’t make that mistake again.
By: Tina L. Jones
Men: Beware Of Your Emotions
14 years ago
1 comments:
I just lost my man about three months ago though he is back again full of love and passion with the help of great man Dr. IKHIDE. I NORAH PEDRO from Norway, have been into a relationship with daniel mark since I was 22 years old and I am 28 now. I so much love him but I could not show the love, it was very difficult for me to prove my realness to him because I thought to prove my love to him might make him look down on me and go after other girls. for over six years Daniel has given me all that I ask of him. I always threatened him with break up each time I want to see his level of love for me because I was told if I threaten him, he will propose to me and then will get married to him before I can show my love despite his complains of him not sure of my love I was responding to him with negative words. though I was suspecting he has another girl in his life, I did not border to ask him about that because I was so sure of his love despite my attitude. on the 8th of September a day to my birthday he came and gave me so many lovely gifts like never before claiming to wish me a happy birthday in advance with his words and behavior I expected him to propose to me on my birthday night then I will also tell him of my pregnant for him. I wait for him on my birthday he did not show up not even a call, I tried his number and it was not going through I refuse to go check on him because the anger in me six days later I went to his house and I found nothing not even a sign of my Daniel once live there. I was disappointed, frustrated, confused with so many thoughts on my mind like hanging my self if I did not see him again because I can not my parent about the pregnancy when the man responsible for it had disappeared. our religion's against that, my family will be disappointed in me, I have brought them shame. I look for daniel everywhere till I could chat with him on social network, he warned me never to disturb him again because he already had found another girl that he wants to live his life with, after a while, he blocked me from all access then I could not tell him of my pregnancy for him. so, I needed help from all corners of life, I decide to check to google my self or read some write up on-site on how to coup with my pain because I could not tell anybody about it not even my friends were aware of my pregnancy. I keep reading to cancel my self till I find how Dr. IKHIDE helps so many persons from different walks of life with their testimonies. then I decide to also contact him with dr.ikhide@gmail.com. Because I do not know much about contacting a spell caster, I was not sure he can bring my Dan back but I decide to give him a try though his requirement was another problem I meet with a friend for help because I could not the items that he needed I have to plead with Dr. IKHIDE to help me get the items because really need my man back to take away my shame. just two days after I send him the requirement Daniel calls me, plead for forgiveness. just yesterday he propose to me and I am so happy. you can also contact him with dr.ikhide@gmail.com
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