Have you ever tried to learn the best way to flirting with a guy? Do you pay attention to the way you talk or smile at a new guy? How can you get across to a guy that you are interested? Since flirting has been an art form forever and it’s a very natural thing to do it can attract a guy and is a powerful tool. When you feel that thing in your stomach that says you are attracted to a guy you should start flirting. Here are some things to get you started in the right direction.
Since you really aren’t interested in being so bold in your flirting a smile is the perfect way to start. It is low-key and tells someone that you are open and friendly. You want to be approachable when you are flirting and smiling will brighten up your face and make you approachable.
Eye contact isn’t usually recognized as flirting but it is one of the most important things you can do. Holding his gaze during a conversation combined with smile will really attract his attention and make your flirting with a guy effective.
Flirting is great with smiling and eye contact but touching can be very erotic. It sparks electricity between the two of you. Putting your hand on his arm while you are talking or on his shoulder when getting in and out of your seat will really show him that you are interested. Touch is very powerful and the reaction to it is equally as powerful.
An effective flirting tip is to talk normally in a noisy place. If you are having a conversation with a new guy in a crowded bar, for example, by keeping your voice low he will have to come even closer to hear you. You don’t want to scream to be heard, you want him closer. Talking in close proximity is much more romantic and is very effective.
Be yourself and don’t overload him with compliments. Flirting should come easily and never staged or even thought about as you are doing it. Enjoy the company you are in and concentrate on him and flirting with a guy will be very successful.
By: Tina L. Jones
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